omg omg i love thinking about sherlock and lestrade both being john’s “daddy,” and lestrade would be “papa” and sherlock would be daddy and they would take care of their little one and lie in bed together with sherlock on one side and greg on the other and john squished in the middle, feeling safe with his daddies on either side of him, helping him when he has a nightmare (but also turning him over and giving him a good hard spanking when he’s been a bad boy)