Sadie: Okay, little Nonny…I’m going to be extremely nice here, because this is ultimately a public forum, and my words can come back to haunt me…especially if I happen to type when I’m so pissed off that I can’t see straight.
I’m going to sit on this one, and let the initial shock and anger wear off, so I can give you the best answer that I can (and that you deserve) later.
BUT, if you happen to want to come off anon and send me another ask or a fanmail (I won’t publish; everything will be kept private for you)…I’ll tell you exactly what I think your ‘Daddy’ can go do to himself.
Just remember that 12 pounds ain’t SHIT, and you’re a gorgeous little dumpling that deserves much better that what you’re getting.
*edit* Now, not knowing what the context was (i.e. what was your Daddy’s
tone of voice, how he said it, was he just trying to tease, etc…even
if he was doing this in a ‘joking’ manner, that does not excuse it. But try talking to him first…does he know how sensitive the subject is for you? if not, then sit him down and tell him. Let him see how much damage his words have done. If he still doesn’t get it, or doesn’t think he owes you a HUGE apology, then I would seriously consider the relationship and it’s future.*
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