Do you think its a good thing if someone gives up age play? Because they’ve matured and they don’t need it anymore. The playing has helped them cope w/ their problems and after a while they feel no need to do it anymore cuz they’ve grown up (even tho they r adults). Do you think this is a good thing and what are your thoughts on this?

Sadie: Giving it up is %100 the person’s decision. After all, if you no longer feel the need to be little or even uncomfortable with the idea of being in little space, why force it? 

And I have heard that a lot of players can go through phases; I’ve had many an ABDL friend tell me that they no longer want to be a part of the lifestyle and throw everything that has to do with being little out, only to miss it after a period of time (be it days, weeks, months, years) and regret purging.

In the end, you can only do what feels best for you (as long as it’s not hurting yourself or anyone else).