What It Means When I Swat Your Ass

i-provide-you-defer:

• You’re mine.
• Behave.
• I love you.
• Look, everyone, this belongs to me.
• Later, I’m going to do this much harder.
• This part, right here, belongs to me. So does the rest.
• I’m in charge.
• It’s okay.
• Don’t worry, I’m here.
• Careful.