Sadie: Oh, that’s a good one, lets see…I don’t think that I’ve given anyone their first ever spanking, period, but I have had a few tell me that I’m the first woman to spank them. I take the same approach that I do whenever I play with someone for the first time, regardless if they’re a “pro” or not: we sit and chat first, I ask them a little bit about their experience (if any) and what they prefer, such as the level of intensity, implements, things of that nature…then we establish safewords (usually the ‘red-yellow-green’ system), we find a comfortable position for them (I have spanked a few people with disabilities, so that’s always something to consider) and then we start out slow, with me checking on them and asking about how they’re doing (I know this is completely opposite of what people may fantasize, but it’s important to me, especially if it’s literally the first time we’ve played together, and I don’t know them well-enough to gauge on my own). If they want to play harder, we build up to that. But no matter who it is, the spankee’s health and well-being is my absolute top priority.
Mo: I cant really answer this one because I’ve only spanked my own little. Sadie is more… free *grins and runs away as the messages come in*
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